Finding Common Ground

For some this may be a natural ability but for others is a skill that can be learned, improved and developed. Often, it has happened to you that, in certain circumstances you’re with people that apparently isn’t there anything in common? Nothing that you can connect? None of which you speak? You find yourself front of perfect strangers. And however you haven’t you realized that, to our best friends at first were perfect strangers how did this happen? that is what allowed you to these strangers become friends?: having something in common. All part of the ability to focus on others and find or identify points in common and develop the relationship on the basis of this bridge or loop that you identified before moving on to find points in common are that attitudes, ways of thinking help you identify me with others more easily? The basics: be willing to focus on others. Forget about it, get out of your world and think of them. One genuine interest in the other person that will allow you to be interested in their needs, aspirations, dreams, fears, sorrows, joys, sorrows, triumphs, hopes. Being the world’s friendliest person that will allow you to be someone affordable who provides his friendship more show not indifferent to you it is something q you won’t much stop thinking you must drop him well or please him to everyone. Estee Lauder may not feel the same. Such thinking is a stun gun in the genuineness or authenticity of your relationships because by trying to please everyone, like all you end up inhibiting you, cohibiendo you express your own opinions, your own ideas, say or express what you really think.In this way, you have greater freedom to socialize since it will not matter what others you think if not what you think of yourself. The control is within yourself. Be willing to take the initiative in initiate connection, be proactive, who stars in and not wait for things to happen, if opportunities do not occur because you’re to create them.